Rev. John Kofi Bosomtwe of the Liberty Assemblies of God in Kumasi has advised men struggling with sexual inexperience or dysfunction to be mindful of their choice of a marriage partner.

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According to the pastor, a man who is naïve about sex may find it easier to build intimacy with a virgin, as both partners would learn and grow together. However, he cautioned that marrying a woman with prior sexual experience could present challenges.

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Speaking to his congregation in a viral video circulating on social media, Rev. Bosomtwe stressed that sex is a critical aspect of marriage and directly impacts relationship satisfaction.

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“The mere fact that you can have an erection does not mean you are capable of having great sex. You need to know how to go about it very well. If you are naïve, marrying a virgin can sometimes save you. But it’s a problem when you marry someone who has already broken her virginity,” he stated during church service.

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He urged men facing sexual difficulties to seek proper guidance rather than rushing into marriage without preparation.

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“Seek guidance to learn how to handle the situation because the problem is that the woman you are marrying may already have experience. If she is a virgin, then there is no problem; you are safe. But if she has had previous sexual encounters, she may mock you during intercourse,” he cautioned.

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The Assemblies of God pastor also highlighted the role of a satisfying sex life in fostering love and generosity between spouses.

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“If you have good sex, men become more caring towards their wives and shower them with gifts,” he added.

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His remarks have sparked mixed reactions on social media, with some agreeing with his perspective, while others argue that a healthy marriage should be built on communication, trust, and mutual understanding rather than sexual history.

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Rev. John Kofi Bosomtwe with a message for his congregation. pic.twitter.com/KA8I4zi7V4— SIKAOFFICIAL🦍 (@SIKAOFFICIAL1) March 15, 2025

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